Mentors and the A-Team

[Aidan]

The vast majority of my mentoring has taken place on the job. My pastor invited me to step into a year-long internship at the church after high school, and over that year he took time to intentionally pour into me, love me, and care for my heart. I am really grateful for his impact on my life. Similarly, while I was working construction, I had an older guy at the company take me under his wing and show me the ropes. Over the three years I worked there he was a constant source of encouragement, accountability, feedback, and friendship. His impact on my life was also very profound, and I was grateful for the time we had together.

[Melissa Smyth]

A lot of the places that I have received mentoring from are leaders I am doing ministry under. I have also received mentorship through my teachers and leaders at Bible school and from different people whom I have asked to mentor me. I am so grateful for each of the many people who have poured into my life in so many transformational ways!!

[Kevin]

When I think about mentoring in my life, it’s really happened in a lot of ways; I would say my parents have been the most influential mentors in my life, and most of that mentoring happened in very informal ways, simply by being part of the same household. I’ve also had more formal mentors, either by my seeking them out intentionally and having a list of questions prepared, or by being assigned a mentor as part of my ministry school experience. Perhaps most surprising to me are when it seems a mentor seeks me out. It still strikes me as almost uncomfortable to be “targeted” in such a good way by someone I look up to and admire, but I think it’s just a symbol of God’s grace reaching out to me and encouraging me.

[Celestine]

Mentoring has taken place in my life in various informal and formal contexts. I’ve had mentors who have guided me through one-on-one meetings, shared meals, and even during casual conversations. These interactions have often occurred in everyday settings, such as over coffee or during walks, where we’ve discussed life, ministry, and personal growth. I had many life coach whom in early days of ministry have indeed proofing to be Father’s of faith and their lifestyle matches their message.

I’ve also experienced mentoring in more structured environments, like discipleship programs or small groups, where we’ve explored specific topics or projects together. In each of these contexts, mentoring has provided valuable opportunities for learning, reflection, and application, helping me navigate challenges and achieve my goals.

The diversity of these contexts has allowed me to receive guidance and support in ways that feel natural and relevant to my life and ministry.